A lot of people are stuck in places where they can’t love.  They don’t know how to give nor receive it.  Experiences have shifted initial thoughts.  Bad experiences have shattered hopes of what they desired.  It became not worth it.  A love grudge was created subconsciously.  It was easier to avoid another opportunity of love failing.  Love was unforgiven.

Being stuck in a place where unforgiveness hinders, blinds and blocks.  Ownership of love was given to the wrong places.  Giving ownership to a person that abused it.  Giving ownership to a failure they may have experienced in their last relationship.  Giving ownership away and not keeping it for themselves.  The description of love was negative.  The description of love was unattainable.  The description of love was attached to others.  When love said hello, the grudge didn’t allow a favorable response.

A conversation with love is needed.  Being honest with love is needed.  Love needs to be forgiven.

Here are some words to speak to love:

Forgiving Love Anthem

Love, I forgive you!

I forgive you for hurting me.

I forgive you for letting others use you against me.

I forgive you for being so giving to others and taking so much from me.

I no longer want to create love caveats.

Love, I forgive you!

I forgive you for allowing others to say I do when all I heard was I don’t.

I forgive you for teaching me the hard way.

I forgive you for leaving me alone many nights.

I forgive you escaping me when I thought I had you.

I forgive you instilling fear into me.

I forgive you for attaching yourself to the wrong people which had no business holding onto you.

I forgive you for blinding me.

I forgive you for letting go.

I am forgiving you because I no longer want to hold a grudge.

Can we work together this time?

Can we decide to be careful?

I want you back.

Let’s get personal again.

Let’s understand each other.  What we both like.  What works for us.  What doesn’t work for us.

Let’s protect each other.

Can we agree to disagree sometimes and still stay together?

I forgive you because I want what’s best for you.  I want what’s best for me.  I want what’s best for us.

I forgive you because I don’t want to block you or be so blind with dislike that when you say hello, I don’t say hi back.

I forgive you because I want to give you and receive you in all of your forms.

Agape, Eros, Philia, and Storge are welcome here!

I promise to never give you away; I will only share you.

Love, I forgive you!

Hopefully, these words will help all of us re-establish relationships with love and our loved ones.  Begin new chapters with a fresh outlook.  Understanding what their love looks like in giving and receiving.  Live to love again.

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