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Dear Future Wife®: Plus Size

The world sees you as plus size but I see your size as a plus.

I see the size of your heart.

I see the size of your effort that you put forth to make me a better man.

I see the size of your spirit.

I see a larger prayer circle.

I see more of an investment.

You’re worried about your weight and I can’t wait to love you more than the size you see.

If you feel that you aren’t healthy, let’s love ourselves into shape.

I will support your efforts to get that old thing back.

I will support where you are right now because I love the pluses.

You don’t compare yourself to what society deems as the perfect size and you fit into my heart.

You’re confidently wearing life, loving “live”, and living on purpose.

You are not worried about perception and you’re accepting me into your arms.

I love to love you.  All of you.  You have exactly what I need and your smile is “bigger than.”

Your embrace makes the world feel safe.

Your “extra” is missing letters to complete the word I see you as.

Extravagant.

Your touch and attention to making me happy allows space for my heart to be fulfilled.

Your size is a plus because you continue to give me more.

I’m happy that you are happy.

I am happy as long as you allow me to love your confidence in you.

I am in love with the pluses your size brings into my heart.

My heart has been empty and needs a bigger than average size love.

Will you let me love you?

Your smile and confidence in you allows me to love you the way you deserve.

Let me love you through the thickness of a relationship.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. T 5 Jan 2017 Reply

    Hi?

    I follow you on instagram and discovered your “future wife” letters/blogs…..to be honest, I have given up, I don’t believe in “the one” anymore. Things have changed, having standards was once something to be admired, something that drove men to wholeheartedly pursue a woman but recently I was told that I will never find a man because my standards are too high, and all I asked is that I be the one and only girlfriend. It saddens me. It actually hurts to think that women are lowering their standards, losing themselves, their values, dignity just for the sake of having a man, to end the loneliness. Thank you for your letters, they are giving me hope, they are bringing me back again, it gets me excited and I look forward you Godly partner. No more shall I be half loved, no more shall I settle. Thank you for setting the standard. God bless every area of your life. Continue to inspire, challenge and raise the bar for men

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