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Don’t Get Stuck in the Wrong Space

I was thinking about a toy to get my little niece for the times she comes over to hang with her cool Uncle.

What came to mind was the puzzle block toy.  This should keep her entertained and also challenge her at the same time.

I remember when I was a young boy playing with those blocks and getting frustrated trying to match the shapes into the right holes.

Initially, I had little to no patience.  I would try force the shapes in the wrong place.

At times, I would just give up because they wouldn’t fit or I would get them stuck.

I would attempt to break parts off, grind them in to spots, and anything else I could think of to manipulate them into fitting in to the holes.

We sometimes do that in life.  We force ourselves into the wrong spaces.  We stay in situations that we are uncomfortably comfortable in and express that we are stuck but make no efforts to get out.

We manipulate ourselves to fit by neglecting our calling, desires and goals.

We become willingly stuck in life.  It can be at our jobs, in our relationships, where you live and how you live.

We need to take time, be patient and make sure we fit where we are designed to fit.

We need to put in effort in achieving our calling, desires and goals.

Don’t get stuck because you don’t fit and don’t manipulate yourself, forcing yourself to fit.

Eventually with effort, patience and understanding; we will learn where we fit.

Do what it takes to be happy and Move Forward.

 

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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