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Dear Future Wife: You Will Be The Reason

The reason why I will want to get married will be YOU.

It will not be because I’m getting older.

It will not be to combine incomes.

It will not be because all my friends are married or getting married.

It will not be because I’m lonely.

It will not be because my family is pressuring me.

It will not be a “might as well” type of situation.

It will be because I want to spend the rest of my life with YOU.

You are what I envisioned my wife to be like.

I thought of marriage as a “thing to do” prior to you.

Now it’s a “commitment to who” that I’m going to fulfill.

My future exists while we hold hands.

Our present is combined in theory and will be tested when I am on one knee and proven when we say I do.

YOU WILL BE THE REASON!

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Casndra

    I love your Dear Future Wife series. It gives me a glimmer of hope that there actually are men out there that can and will honor their woman. And because of that they will get the honor and respect they deserve from her. Keep providing that hope even if for some of us jaded folks we only see a tiny beam at the end of the tunnel. I look forward to the next read.

  2. Sojourner Truth

    He is the reason she still believes. She prayed for a sign the that one for her is real and coming and he was revealed. The universe has allowed their circles to overlap for years but their first encounter in real-time to be biblical.

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