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Dear Future Wife: Pursuing You

There are two ways a man pursues a woman.

Job vs Career.

A job is temporary, something just to hold you over until you find something else, something you need right now; to pass the time, add to the resume, quick etc.

Career is something you invest in, where you want to be, what adds to your personal definition, where you want to be purposely and the results of hard work etc.

Don’t get me wrong a job can eventually turn into a career but it just wasn’t pursued the same way.

I am blessed that you reviewed my application carefully.

You saw that I checked single as my marital status.

While pursuing you; I am not married, engaged, involved or playing the fence on what I want for the rest of my life.

When I clicked Single, it didn’t mean I was available to others.

I am single, looking for a double which results in us becoming married.

I took my time with my application because you are something I want long-term.

I worked to get to where you are and I want to be beside you.

I didn’t lie on my resume!

My experiences have shaped me to who I am.

Who I am, is a man ready to grow in the position of your husband.

While reviewing my resume, don’t be deterred.

I will share my experiences of past relationships when appropriate.

Don’t worry!

My love for you is not defined or shaped by how others have mismanaged it.

You will experience a love I have never been able to give because my resume experiences don’t contain my future, it just influenced and prepared it.

I am ready for on-the-job training.  I am ready to move up.  I am ready to retire in love with you.

Will you hire me?

Hire me for the long haul.  Our relationship will be my career; my jobs have begun and ended.

I am living in our greatest accomplishment.

Will you hire me to always work hard, overachieve  and grow our company.

I am working to get noticed and chosen amongst the applicants.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Sojourner Truth 25 Oct 2015 Reply

    She never wanted a job. she has always desired a career. Applicants and Qualified is how a career is determined. No need to apply for what already has your name on it.

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