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Dear Future Wife®: Securing Your Insecurities

I realized that even though I wish I could create your confidence, I don’t have the ability to do so.

I  recognize where you don’t give yourself enough credit.

I will make that my goal to feed your strengths  in hopes of helping you realize how great you are.

I want to endorse the moments when you smile in recognition of your greatness.

I understand it has been tough to enjoy who you are based on how you were failed.

I desire to be a major part of the reason you succeed.

Succeed in love, life, and being who you are designed to be.

I need your help.

I need you to let me in.

I promise my goal is for us to win.

Winning is us making our dreams of love come true.

The Knight in shining armor you dreamed about will be me.

The Queen I proposed to will manifest as you.

You have been hurt before and let down by my fellow man.

You have been told a story that remained in that state of words.

Words that weren’t fact because they were told to you by a fictional character.

Tell me what your insecurities are so I can wrap them in my secure arms; in hopes to transform them into the opposite of what you expected from a man.

My understanding of this is clear based on my personal experiences.

I have never been perfect but I want to learn how to perfectly secure you in what vision I have of us.

That means me making you  able to breathe, walk, and believe in what you dream love feels like.

I want you to know that when I don’t answer my phone; I’m not ignoring you.

I want you to know that when I am meeting with a female friend; she is your friend and if she isn’t, she isn’t allowed in our circle.

I want you to know that when a person in my history attempts to resurface that their efforts will be in vain.

I want you to know that my words of promise to you are dependable.

I want you to know that when I am with my fellas, the goal is to get home to love and not succumb to adulterous lust.

I want you to know that my thoughts are always with you and how I can strengthen our vows.

I want you to know that I live in fear of messing up my forever.

I want you to know that I will never compare your beauty to another woman.

I want you to know that my compliments are genuine and not for gain.

I want you to know that you do not have to be perfect!

I want you to know that sex isn’t better than love.

I want you to know that the password on my phone isn’t to keep secrets from you.

I want you to know that I need you to know “We are exclusive for and to each other”.

I want you to know that I have insecurities too and you are helping me get over them.

I want you to know that I will express my fears to you and desire the same with hopes of us nurturing each other.

When there are two people on my shoulders influencing my decisions in this relationship; you are the angel on the right.

I will strive to make the right decision.

Your insecurities are my priorities to secure.

I will love you out of those insecurities.

I won’t allow insecurities to define who you are they will be who you were.

Our success story will be described with a smile that says I trust you.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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