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Dear Future Wife: Dream Come True

Is that you? Could it be true? Have I been given an opportunity to be everything I say I am as a man?

You seem to be who I’ve missed, although we haven’t met prior.  I would be a liar if I said I’ve seen you in my desires, but it would be the truth if I said you are what I desired.

Confused as much as I am?

I can see the future in a sense of me pursuing you, determines where this goes.  I want to guide the future of us by the road I drive us on.  I realize I have to take a leadership role I’ve never seem to know.

Or maybe I have known the role but haven’t been forced to step into the position.  I accept the challenge of being what you deserve.  Being your happy ending.  Being your love story.

I appreciate the fact that you see my mistakes and don’t look at me as your mistake.  It all is becoming clear to me in a world where there isn’t much clarity.

It came clear when I sat down to write to my Dear Future Wife that the time is now.

I don’t want to wait but will wait for the time to say good morning by each other’s side as opposed to a text or a call.  I understand the importance of patience.  I am willing to prove myself with consistency and effort.

Forever I will find new ways to fall.  Fall in love, even in turmoil I will keep my promise and vows.  As yours, I will remember why I said I do.  The promise will remain intact.

There may be some doubt but remain strong in that I will always be without another heart to hold or give my own to.  It’s you who shares and holds my heart.  You are my “dream come true” and through you, God has singled out what’s due to me!

Making a commitment to love without condition.  My mission is stay real and heal our experiences that may have left us steel-hearted. We bounced back and I softened the love force with consistency and truth.

Let’s be living proof that it can last forever.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Dorothy 8 Dec 2015 Reply

    Keep that pen going, you are changing lives!!

    1. Bashea Williams 15 Dec 2015 Reply

      Thank you. I appreciate you saying that.

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