Dear Future Wife: I’m Not Perfect

Post author:Bashea Williams, LCSW-C
Post published:October 13, 2015
Post category:Dear Future Wife®
Post comments:1 Comment

Allow me to introduce myself.

I’m Mr. Imperfect.

I am happy to give you the experience of all my corrected mistakes.

I have learned from my previous experiences in life, love and relationships.

I’m burying my old ways and giving life to what makes me a better man.

What I have realized is that I will always be working to get better for you and for us.

I will make new mistakes, correct those and continue to grow as your husband.

I understand that I will mess up, come up short and disappoint you.

I understand that I will forget things like dates.

I may forget your birthday, our anniversary, to pick up your favorite candy or to do the laundry.

But there are things I will never forget.

I will never forget how to make you laugh and smile!

I will never forget how we met!

Most importantly, I will never forget how to love you!

I’m imperfect but I’m not a quitter.

I realize a relationship and personal growth requires stamina.

I am always in the “gym”!

I understand there are no quick fixes in becoming a better man.

My motivation comes from within and is externalized by the way I treat you.

Forever improving while thanking you for you forgiveness and patience.

I will not concentrate on your flaws to distract me from my own.

I am imperfect while continually striving to be better for what you deserve.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.