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Dear Future Wife: No Distractions

I’m not distracted even though I haven’t written to you in a long time.

I’m focused on us every day.

We may not be conversing now, but we communicate all the time.

Our thoughts hold hands. Our souls touch. Our paths kiss. Our visions lock eyes. Our future partners.

The fragrance of you compliments my being. I wear you on my collar.

I want to spend the rest of my life enjoying the best of your life.

When we aren’t in touch, I am not distracted by other women.

I’m focused!

I am so into you that I don’t notice another woman’s flirtatious smile or advance.

When another woman says hello, I remember your hi.

My vision is nothing but you.

If a woman is trying to get my attention by a look, you appear in my thoughts and I start to appreciate you more.

I’m not distracted!

I hear nothing but your voice in a world of screams.

I speak only of you because there isn’t anyone else worth talking about.

I see your beauty in a world of cute.

In a crowd of people, there is one woman.

In a sea of fish, there is only one catch, and it’s you.

I refuse to be distracted by anything else because anything else isn’t what satisfies me and my promise.

My promise to meet you at your happiness and tackle your sadness together.

I hope you read this and think to yourself, “Is he real?”; while experiencing for yourself how real I am.

You have my attention and I am focused on not being distracted.

With that being said, know that you are always on my heart.

Don’t consider me doing something else as a take away from us but look at it as something that is setting me up for new ways to love you.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Anonymous 17 Nov 2015 Reply

    I love reading your post, continue with your amazing writing!

  2. Chinadoll 24 Nov 2015 Reply

    I’ve enjoyed reading your post, they are very inspirational and most definitely gives me hope for a future. Your post truly makes me feel like you a speaking directly to me…lol. Pleas keep sharing them .

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       5 Dec 2015 Reply

      Thank you! I will keep writing.

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