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Dear Future Wife: No Make-up

I’d like to see you without all the makeup.

Not just eye liner, lipstick, blush, etc.

I’m speaking of everything you did or do to present well.

I want to see your heart without it’s shield.

I promise to protect it.

It’s okay, I won’t abuse it and I will treat it like it’s my own.

I can’t replace it but will strive to renew it.

I want to see your mind without the clouds.

Clouds of judgment of “is he real, this sounds familiar, I’ve heard this before, is this game, how many others is he telling this to”.

It’s sunny out and I’m clear.

I want to be a clear vision, where you can see my passion of being available, honest and open for miles.

I don’t want the make-up of your past nor the make-up of what’s not really you to rub off all over me.

That will just drive me away after always trying to clean up all the make-up you left.

I want to see you without makeup because I know that means you understand that I accept you as you are.

I want to see you before you start the process of creating the woman you present to the world.

I want to see you without makeup because I know that means we will wake up together.

I want to see the real energy you put into being raw.

It will be a blissful moment to let me into your comfortable essence.

My view of you should be different than the rest of the world.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Sojourner Truth

    She can easily meet this challenge as she merely uses makeup to slightly enhance what is beautiful in the Raw. It wipes away easily and seeks to conceal the true essence of her from those who are not worthy of it.

  2. Sojourner Truth

    Daily

  3. Deedi

    I love this! It is perfect timing for me to have discovered your site. When is the book coming out or is there a book in print too already and I’m just behind the ball on discovery. I’m screaming…thank you for being so authentic!!!

    1. Bashea Williams

      It will be out in 2017. Finishing up editing now.

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