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Dear Future Wife™: Prepare To Stay

We’re away and it hurts that I can’t reach you outside of a text.

I can’t feel you outside of the vibrations of your voice through the phone.

We are creative, we do what it takes to manage our physical distance.

Skype dates are cute.

Cooking together from a distance.

Picking a restaurant, going out on dates for one, pretending to be two.  Eating alone while pretending to be across from each other.

Choosing a movie to watch together, while we are apart.

It is challenging but we are preparing to stay.

The distance stretches longer than reality.

I’m accustomed to looking over beside me and seeing you or a short trip that requires a light gas up.

The toll and the price to see you are pennies compared to the invaluable shared breath.

I’m somewhat of a stalker as I look at you in awe understanding that’s an infinite desire.

What is? You!

Desired to finish life with a smile of she, makes us we and thee answer is signed with a decree of no release of change of the circumstances chosen made forever.

I no longer believe in long periods apart, being miles and miles away or long distance relations.

I need your touch to be consistently instant.

Right now you’re more than a reach away.

Next time we’re near, be prepared to do what it takes to stay.

One of the worst feelings is not being able to touch love.

To show it virtually but deny it physically to someone you’re connected with.

The short visit needs to be a permanent address change for one of us.

They say home is where the heart is so why are we just visiting?

Stay.

A flight to you isn’t enough when it’s a roundtrip and the return is without you.

A flight to me isn’t enough unless it’s one-way and a change of address is needed.

I desire to hear the words “Let’s go home” as opposed to “Call me when you make it home”.

A goodbye turns into goodnight with love beside me.

Prepare to stay!

What’s the next move?

(Image credit: jamaicanlove.org)

 

Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Dr. Wellington

    Wow!!

    Mr. Williams, if I could move, inspire, every black man to have an once of caring for family, for love of child, love for committed relationship as you have expressed in your writings; my work would be easy!! Keep up the excellent writings.

  2. Sojourner Truth

    Sometimes you have to “leave” to find yourself. Connections span the distant and are not altered by time. Confirmation comes when you least expect it. Beyond a shadow of a doubt she will take her proper place by his side. He will cover hers and she will always have his back.

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