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Dear Future Wife: You Trained Me

I was trained to hide my emotions.

Especially those that revealed sensitivity.

I was good at it too.

I could be in awe of someone, look at them like they are an inanimate object, just to avoid revealing my interest.

I could be in pain and present stoically.

I could be excited about someone and play it cool.

When I met you, I had no choice but to abandon all my training.

I knew my old training couldn’t coexist with my chances of being with you!

Being with you is my desire and goal!

I need, want and I’m going to do everything to accomplish that goal.

That goal includes helping you want me as much as I want you.

I know my old training would leave me empty-handed, lonely and still searching for a woman.

Now I know my search is over and so are my old ways.

I pay attention to what you like.

I am excited that I excite you and I show it.

I reveal my heart and trust it in your hands.

I give love emotionally.

I lead with explanations.

I share my thoughts, communicate my vision and stand firm in position.

The position of loving you.

I decided, with everything, I will consider you.

I can openly say when I prayed for a wife, I met my new trainer.

My new trainer certified me on how to love her.

I love you.

Thank you for training me to love you.

Certifiably loving you!

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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