Dear Future Wife: Your Beauty Grows

Post author:Bashea Williams, LCSW-C
Post published:October 14, 2015
Post category:Dear Future Wife®
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I will be honest when I first saw you in person, I wasn’t as attracted to you as I expected to be.

I have met women who when I first saw them, I was like sheesh, I have to have her.

That wasn’t you!

I have seen women online and thought, we will be making beautiful babies.

That wasn’t you!

I have met women in person and thought; that is wifey.

That wasn’t you!

I have met women and undressed them with my eyes.

That wasn’t the case with you!

With you, I become more attracted with each encounter.

I allow it to take place as opposed to forcing you to take a place of a vision I created before I knew you.

I dressed you with royal garments because a King needs a Queen.

I envision a flawless garb of royalty, class, sophistication, confidence, love and trust.

I see you as someone who needs and deserves a man in uniform, prepped to be a husband that is faithful, strong, a leader that listens, considers his wife in all things and a father-ready man.

A man that is all things one should be.

Not possessing perfection but understanding his imperfection and utilizes precaution with the understanding and desire to align himself with what an image of the best you deserve.

Each time we meet, I am forced to become more of a man and each time we meet you are showing the desires of my heart.

Each time we meet, you add to what I see and want.

Your beauty grows.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.