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DEAR FUTURE WIFE®: You’re My Side Peace

Figuratively speaking, there is a war going on and I can’t keep fighting alone.

There has to be more than just me in the world trying to survive.

I can take on everything alone but why should I when I know there is someone amazing that should be by my side.

My Side Peace.

I don’t think we were created to be alone.  To love alone. To navigate without a partner for life.

The word “side” has been taught to be a bad thing when it comes to two people interacting.

We have abused what it means to be in wait, support, or supplemental.

I fell for it when I heard the term “side piece.”

I watched a video of how someone described it as men being misinformed because we disrespected our “main” in order to have a side piece.

After really thinking about it, it didn’t sit well and I thought we were using the right sounding word but wrong spelling.

Piece is a part, peace is still.

Piece is minimized, peace is maximized.

The word I read said you were my rib pulled from my side and it didn’t describe after.

It is left up to interpretation.

I thought to myself, why can’t it mean pulled from my in”side” to be placed by my side?

This doesn’t diminish my partner but equalizes her so that I can step outside myself to get support, another view, and additional balance.

While you are by my side, I recognize you as an equal, I am by yours.

I am your side peace.

So much to fight through, side peace.

So much to fight for, side peace.

By my side against the struggles of a walk that is often walked alone.

I’m not lonely, I just trust you as my ride along.

Dual correction, identical ideals of protection, you are, I am, we are what is needed in a teamwork’s creation of perfection.

I can’t imagine the idea of side peace being described as less than a duplication of me that gives additional perspective.

A woman’s intuition to a man’s vision is beyond what I can think when PEACE is created.

When I have a hard day, coming home to my Peace.

When you are faced with anything that’s unsettling, coming home to your Peace.

It’s like we truly are calm inside despite what’s outside of us.

You Are My Side Peace!

We are not our society’s description…

We are support; we are what is needed after the storm, we are what’s needed before the storm, we are what’s needed during the storm…

We are beside each other bringing Peace…

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. B Coleman 24 Oct 2016 Reply

    The Peace that is shared between two is like silence in a room full of noise. Calm and heavy. But oh so satisfying…
    Thank you.

    1. Bashea Williams 24 Oct 2016 Reply

      You’re welcome! Yes, I agree. Very satisfying!

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