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Dear Future Wife®: You’re Worth The Work

I’m distracted by the thoughts of you.

Although, I’m sometimes overwhelmed with all the work I have to do.

I know you are worth every speck of blood, sweat, and tear.

I faced and erased everything that a man with pride would fear.

I pause to think of the times of us two.

How immaculately God matched your eyes to your smile to your heart, I have no clue.

All I know is that it took me years to learn how to be the man you needed me to be.

I wasn’t always patient but the wait was for what I am now able to see.

Me for you and you for me.

The thought of you sends a chill throughout my entire being.

This is what people have been describing, this is what they have been meaning.

I’m excited by the thought of you, plus me, equals us.

I’m excited that we made a decision to move past our past and purposely trust.

The prayer began with preparation for me to become what I needed to be, in order to be what you want.

What you want is a man with broad shoulders and a strong frame to carry your burdens when they are too much to bare alone.

A man that puts you on his shoulders to help you see over your insecurities.

A man who will stop what he is doing to just listen.

A man who will wipe your tears with kisses and remind you of reasons to smile.

A man who will grab your hand when it’s time to pray.

A man that sees your beauty without looking at you and makes you feel beautiful when you feel are at your ugliest moments.

I realized in order to get you to “Fall” in love with me, I would have to stand firm on the things that are needed to get you there.

I have to work love and love to work.

Once we get there, I will not stop doing the things I did.

They will manifest differently so that you won’t get used to my love.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Sojourner Truth 11 Jan 2016 Reply

    Work is always fun when you are on the right team. Growth is constant and easier to handle when it’s at a slow and steady pace.

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