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Patience Makes The Heart Grow

Be patient! Wait and allow your heart and mind to agree on the common denominator.  Once that connection is established, release your ability to commit to do what it takes to make it work.

You have to become compatible internally.

Being in Love alone isn’t going to sustain itself or the relationship. You can love a person from a distance. You can be in love today and fall out of love tomorrow.

Love is a choice. A choice proved by your actions. Love is a commitment.

Attraction/arousal are not controlled. They can lead to love.  Acting in love when you don’t feel it is real love.  Love creates emotions. Love is a behavior. Love is sometimes undeserving.

Sometimes love is unnoticed.

The words I LOVE YOU have to be aligned with your efforts actions and results regardless of response of the person you express it to.

There is a difference between emotion and devotion. The internal compatibility within yourself allows you to fully see if you can have a permanent compatibility with someone else.

Your heart may say yes but your mind may red flags. Wave that white flag when the red flags are too much.

Be patient.

 

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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