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Internationally Recognized as a Relationship
Recovery Expert

Paul Bashea Williams, MSW, LCSW-C, LICSW influences healthy relationships by having comprehension, compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact with one another. He is also the author of “Dear Future Wife ® A Man Guide and A Woman’s Reference To Healthy Relationships”.

Relationship recovery isn’t always about reconciliation with others; it’s about restoring the trust that was lost within ourselves.  We can always recover from every relationship with people, places or things.

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Bashea Williams

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated husband, father, Mental Health Therapist, Relationship Advisor and Writer. He runs his own mental health private practice, Hearts In Mind Counseling. 

The book

Dear Future Wife®

Dear Future Wife®, A Man’s Guide and a Woman’s Reference to Healthy Relationships provides couples and singles a peek into the minds of the opposite sex. In this emotionally-charged and insightful collection, Author and Therapist Bashea Williams pits readers face-to-face with often complicated scenarios that can create communication breakdowns or bridges and how to navigate them. Written from the perspective of a man, yet considering the female point-of-view, Williams creates a healthy dialogue that helps both men and women create positive personal practices and thought patterns to build better relationships. Whether you’re single, courting, engaged, or married, Dear Future Wife will prepare you for a healthy and exhilarating romance.

BOOK REVIEWS

Happy Readers

This is hands down the best relationship book that I have read in a few years. The format of the book is easy to read and the application at the end of each chapter is priceless. I started with the intent to just read a chapter and ended up reading the WHOLE book. I am reading it again to do the application pieces at the end of each chapter.
Uneeka Jay
I absolutely loved this book! I felt an array of emotions while reading it The brutal honesty in this book was mind blowing and refreshing. There were moments I had to stop reading... I teared up and started praying. Everyone needs a copy of this book! "Dear Future Wife" was a healing balm to my soul and spirit. It's definitely a must read!
Renitia Bligen

BOOKINGS & APPEARANCES

SPEAKING​

Bashea is a dynamic and experienced speaker. His speeches on love, relationships, and trauma are captivating and informative. He is highly recommended and sought out as a person who is an advocate for healthy individuals and relationships.