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Dear Future Wife™: Your Beauty is Specific

It has nothing to do with society.

It has nothing to do with comparison.

It has nothing to do with anyone else.

Your beauty is specific to you.

I have never connected with someone who looked so gorgeous in their essence of being who they are.

Your beauty said hello before I heard your voice.

I stared at you and the greeting played out.

I grabbed you mentally and you held on.

We realized that the prayers we prayed, were for each other and a spiritual confirmation was made evident.

I promise I have never seen someone so beautiful in my life.

I am flawed but know that my flaws were covered by who you are, how you are, and what you are.

You had this look of “Why me?”

And I didn’t understand “Why not you?”

Your smile was evident through your eyes when you tried to conceal or save face.

I don’t want you to coach yourself out of showing how intentionally beautiful you are.

Will you allow me to be in awe and just receive it?

Will you allow my attention to your details be sufficient enough?

I’m asking because I don’t think you need another’s man attention to fill a void.

If you ever get to that point, let’s talk about it.

Let me know until I get it right.

If it’s deeper than me, let’s continue to talk about it and work together until you know I’m here and all you need.

Your beauty is deeper than a vision through the eyes.

It’s a holistic vision.

You’re beautiful when you smile, pray, talk, cry, share, care, sleep, forgive, are upset, say no, stand firm, pray again, love, allow yourself to be loved, accomplish, fail, pose, posture, say I do, commit, be faithful, and work together.

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Bashea Williams, LCSW-C

Paul Bashea (Bah-Shay) Williams, LCSW-C, LICSW is described as an Intellectual Emotionalist. Someone who understands what a man thinks and what a woman feels. Helping the two meet and have common ground by encouraging emotion and logic to agree. He is a dedicated father, Licensed Certified Social Worker- Clinical, Relationship Specialist and Writer. He works with at-risk youth and specializes in marriage and family, couples, and individual counseling. He provides relationship advice to individuals and couples. He writes about life, love, and fatherhood. His writing, acting, and public speaking has been featured on panels throughout the country, Huffington Post and several other popular websites, national syndicated radio shows, television and movies. Bashea first started writing to first hold himself accountable and get a better understanding of people's hearts and minds. He loves how relationships work and operate. He strives to help others through his words. Bashea Williams has provided valuable insight on relationships, motivation, and parenting on a variety of panels and conferences. He is highly recruited and his work is valued as measurable and complete. He has years of providing counseling services for singles, couples, youth, and families. Bashea Williams has become well-known for his Trademarked Dear Future Wife series that serves as a man's guide and a woman's reference. His goal is to influence healthy relationships by having compromise, consideration, and an understanding of how people interact. You can follow his work at BasheaWilliams.com, BasheaWilliams on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.

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  1. Sojourner Truth1908

    Appreciated
    The way you paint with words puts Picasso to shame
    The way your thoughts are conveyed rival the touch of the best masseuse
    Compliments and kind words that fall off the lips of men are no match to yours
    I would never settle for imitation when authentic awaits…. 🙂

  2. Carla Palmer

    Beautiful! I love this!

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